GRATEFULL HELL

I do not know when to begin, and who started it is not too clear. Clearly, there are many people being very long for heaven and hell very scared. From small children to the elderly, from the village to the city, mostly miss the heaven and the fear of hell. Honestly it must be admitted, so I've long hit by homesickness and such fears. Cuman, after browsing the aisles contemplation of life with a certain depth, it seems that we humans have for too long pampered by cradle of heaven, and be scared by the threat of hell. To then lost two golden opportunities in life. The first golden opportunity, people lose enormous strength named sincerity. The second golden opportunity, it is through the forging of the forging of hell-the dreaded (read: problems) then humans so strong and powerful. The conception of heaven-hell, as we know, does have a lot of benefit. Cuman, as the face of any duality, the conception of heaven-hell makes not a few people and then "trade" with life. As a result, people lose sincerity as a life force. There is a story about a village that does not work cut the big tree disturbing. Due to various equipment not managed to make the fallen tree, this tree is suspected of being attended with certain metaphysical forces. Dicarilah the oracle who can help. Apparently, there is a simple-looking man who can cut trees with chainsaws were normal. The last person had just cut the tree beginning with the sentence which reads: "with sincerity before God, nothing that can not be done". It turned out that the performance of simple people this sounds to many places. In addition because of admiration society, also because she had received a large gift. On the other side of the village which has a similar problem and then call him. And after cutting the tree with the same techniques and tools, it turns out many times only lead to failure. Nothing has changed, he said after repeatedly failing, apparently eliminating gift sincerity! It's just a story, but worth contemplating if sincerity is not the source of weakness. He is a kind of power in that can make people be so powerful. Inspired by many Sufi stories, as well as from the poems of Gibran and Rumi, as well as quality leaders who are still in power when the body is called the dead by doctors, sincerity has become a strong theme of life long ago. Made a second golden opportunity lost by the conception of heaven-hell, are the forces that can be presented by everyday life full of "hell". Problems, temptations, challenges, the issue is a series of things feared by many people as they scare the hell. The less face like this present hell, the better for the fans paradise. Apparently life and tells another story. As ever spoken nicely by M. Scott Peck in The Road Less Travelled, those who scare the hell turned out to be a human grow weak and flabby. Some even affected by mental illness is pathetic. In the early part of this inspirational book Scott Peck writes the "This tendency to Avoid Suffering emotional problems and inherent in Them is the primary basis of all human mental illness?". The tendency to run away from problems and suffering is the fundamental principal of a mental condition that is not too healthy. Reflecting from here, hell is not as bad as the shadow of many people. In the layers deeper clarityHell is a place of purification. A place where the garbage of life processed into useful fertilizers. Call everyday problems such as dimarahin boss. A moment in question was made angry, but anger is making a strong boss. Or have a fussy wife asked for forgiveness, he was deliberately present to make the husband to be patient. Similarly with other issues. What is clear, run away from problems is easy for a while, but it brings long-term negative impact. Scott Peck's argument borrows ibid., likes to run away from problems and responsibilities is the main characteristic of human beings affected by the disease character disorder. More than just a mental illness earlier, challenges and real problems are similar to ladders of maturity and ripeness. The higher and the great thing is, it means his life is being stepped foot in a place that is also high. Heaven (read: happiness) is a beautiful air and fresh life, but he seemed much more beautiful and fresh if a person has been through hell ladders Similar to the Yin-Yang circle that in the split second, initially there was a clear and distinct difference between heaven and hell. It contains the smiles of Heaven, Hell contains crying. However, the levels of clarity, insulation and the separator was gone. Joys and sorrows, tears, smiles, success, failure is just the flow of life that comes with their respective roles. Just like the day that changed the night and vice versa, every turn of runs quiet and serene. And do not forget, the quality of life within this can only be achieved by man steeped in the essence of gratitude to the existence of hell. [By Gede Prama/03-04-2008]